Dating a Cop

Dating a cop is very difficult to say the least. Marrying a cop is another story. It takes very strong women to date a cop and honestly not everyone is cut out to do so. When a first met Mr. Adonis I remember saying “yep, this is the one”. I thought my search would end there right at that moment. I could not find one flaw except for his extremely dry lips…which was not a deal breaker. Mr. Adonis was tall, dark, and handsome. Oh! I did I mention he also was a part of the military? I couldn’t find anything wrong!!! I swear!!! I even tried looking for flaws because every person has them. “Maybe his pants are to short…damn they are the perfect length” “maybe he chews with his mouth open and talk when it’s full…damn he has excellent table manner” “maybe I’m on Pranked …Ashton Kutcher get you’re a** out here”. I’m telling you I could not find anything! A few days later I noticed when I tried scheduling dates he would be too busy or tired due to all the shift work. When I told my friends I was dating him the first thing they said was “oh oh, cops are the number one cheaters”. Eventually he was able to schedule in a little time for me. However, because I am a bitch who seeks attention all the time he did not see me enough. I felt like we were not even dating. All in all he was a great guy just not for me. My Advice – Get to know a person for who they are and not for what society had labeled them as. Stereotypes are born from closed minded people. Relationships also require time and patience. Make time gain patience.